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Nature vs. Nurture vs. Sexual Fluidity

I've been interacting with Lisa Diamond’s fascinating book Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire. In my previous post, I summed up Diamond’s conclusions about sexual fluidity and ended with her thoughts about the whole nature vs. nurture debate. 

Nature vs. Nurture vs. Sexual Fluidity

People to Be...Misunderstood: A Response to the Gospel Coalition

The Gospel Coalition just published a review of my two booksPeople to Be Loved and Living in a Gray World. The author of the review was Anne Paulk. As a writer, I enjoy good, constructive criticism of my work, and I’m so thankful to have people in my life who give it to me. Since I’m not Jesus, everything I say contains a mixture of truth and error, and I’m on a mission to weed out the latter.

People to Be...Misunderstood: A Response to the Gospel Coalition

Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire

Well, that title’s going to attract a wide range of readers. I’ll never forget reading Lisa Diamond’s book Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women’s Love and Desireat my kids’ afterschool events and getting some rather strange “ewe, what a creeper” looks from the other moms. 

Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire

5 Bad Reasons for Believing that Homosexuality Is a Sin

There may be good reasons for believing that homosexuality is a sin, but there are also some very bad reasons. For what it’s worth, I don’t even like the phrase “homosexuality is a sin.” I explain why in my book People to Be Loved.

5 Bad Reasons for Believing that Homosexuality Is a Sin

A Dialogue with Alan Chambers

PS:I’m so exited to have Alan Chambers on my blog! I’ve admired Alan from afar over the last few years and only recently connected with him on social media. For many of you, Alan needs no introduction. 

A Dialogue with Alan Chambers

A Final Review of Ken Wilson’s “Third Way” Approach to Homosexuality: Part 3

In this third and final review of Ken Wilson’s A Letter to My CongregationI want to dive into the main point of his argument. (The first two are HERE and HERE.)

  A Final Review of Ken Wilson’s “Third Way” Approach to Homosexuality: Part 3

Why a (yet another) White, Straight, Male Decided to Write a Book about Homosexuality

I just found out that the release date for my books about homosexuality ( adults and another for teens) got moved up from the original Jan 2016 date to Nov 2015.

Why a (yet another) White, Straight, Male Decided to Write a Book about Homosexuality

40 Questions minus 1 for Those Who Have 40 Questions

  1. Are your questions real questions or veiled assertions?

2. When did you stop beating your wife (or husband)?

3. How did you come up with the number 40? Did Rick Warren put you up to this?

40 Questions minus 1 for Those Who Have 40 Questions

Living in Terror as a Gay Christian

*The following post is by a friend of mine who wishes to remain anonymous. He's a conservative Christian who experiences same-sex attraction.

Living in Terror as a Gay Christian

Discussing Homosexuality: A Better Way

What we debate is becoming less important in Christian circles than how we debate. To the ears of many, both in the church and out, Christians have collectively become clanging cymbals. 

Discussing Homosexuality: A Better Way

An Open Conversation on Mixed Orientation

A “mixed orientation (M.O.) marriage” is where one spouse is straight while the other opposite-sex spouse is attracted to the same sex. History has seen many such marriages end in much pain and

An Open Conversation on Mixed Orientation

A Celibate Same-Sex Couple?

I want you to meet a rather unique couple. Their names are Sarah and Lindsey, but don’t form your opinions too quickly. Yes, Sarah and Lindsey are partners. Yes, they are attracted to the same sex. But no, they are not married nor are they engaging in sexual relations. They are celibate.

A Celibate Same-Sex Couple?